I've had my Dell X30 with wireless for a couple weeks. I am trying to do the following and could use some help.

1 Work Laptop has Lotus Notes and MS Outlook plugin. I wish to sync only calendar & Tasks. NO Email. Possibly Avantgo
2 Home PC has Outlook. I wish to sync contacts. Possibly Avantgo. NO Email

PROBLEM. I cannot sync calendar information from Laptop. I was initally able to sync Contacts from my Home PC when I was just fooling around. I've since deleted all partnerships and started over.

Questions:
1 Instructions imply that 1 partnership needs to be established... on Laptop?
2 No partnership on Home PC, per instructions say "you want to sync to more than 1 computer". This is what I want to do since I will "cherry pick" what I want to sync.
3 Any issues with the plugin?
4 How should the partnerships be set up based on my requirements?
5 Could I really sync everything, excluding email, from both computers knowing that the data will be intermixed?

Thanks in advance for your help